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“Afford”

June 27, 2025June 23, 2025mrsonedollarallowanceLeave a comment

I had an “ah-ha” moment the other day about this word. There’s a difference between being able to afford something and wanting to afford it. So many times, we focus heavily on what people see on the outside. I hear it at work lately – I work with agents, and there are comments made about how people spend their money. Now, I agree with the “I just handed you a check for $20,000, what do you mean you have no money?” However, there’s a flip side. Just because someone pulls up in a Tesla doesn’t mean they want to throw money around.

TRADE OFFS

Mr. ODA and I have money. We can go out to dinner, go on a vacation and stay in a fancy hotel, pay for flights across the country for all 5 of us, buy another house, splurge on a vacation house and a boat. If we wanted to. We don’t.

Instead, we want to look into the future. We decided that the ability to spend time as a family, being there for the kids’ activities, and going on different kinds of trips throughout the year to give the kids experiences is more valuable.

I talk about this concept often in this blog. Every dollar spent has an opportunity cost. Every dollar spent should cause the question, “is this the best use of this dollar?” We joke about how we hesitate to buy a $30 pair of shorts, which you wear for years, yet we’ll spend $30 to eat one meal. Of course, we do have those instances where we go out to eat, but they’re not a constant staple of our household. We know that the instant gratification of that one meal isn’t going to get us to our long term goals. It’s the same concept with the $5/day coffee purchase. It’s not about the literal $5 that’s going to get you on your way to financial freedom; it’s the mentality that comes with making better financial decisions.

HOUSE POOR

When we were shopping for our first house in 2012, the bank pre-approved us for $750,000. We set our limit at $350,000. Why? Because we felt we could scrape together 20% down payment and closing costs for a $350,000 home. If we were under a $750,000 mortgage, we’d have to pay a higher monthly payment and private mortgage insurance (PMI) as a penalty for not having 20% down. At $350,000, our mortgage payment was about $2,000. At $750,000, the mortgage payment with PMI would have been about $3,500. That’s an extra $18,000 per year we would have been spending on a house instead of investments, trips, a new car, etc.

If I said to you, “pay $2000 to your mortgage, and at the very same time, put $1500 into a savings account that you can’t touch,” what would your reaction be? You’d find every excuse not to do that. You may do it for a month or two, but there would be an emergency or large purchase that comes up and you’d justify using that money for that instead.

CAR DECISIONS

While we can “afford” the Tesla, we didn’t buy it to be showy. We bought it to serve a purpose. Unfortunately, the concept of Tesla comes with pre-conceived notions for people. We didn’t pay for an extra color. We bought the base model because we weighed our expectations of using it versus the cost of extra charging needed and such. With the tax credit, our net was $38,000. I’d venture to say your car was about that price or more if you bought it new. So while we can afford the Tesla, that’s what we chose for our family because it met our needs. We didn’t buy an $80,000 BMW just for the name when a $40,000 car meets our needs.

GADGETS & TRINKETS

Maybe your spending is at the hundreds of thousands level. Maybe you’re buying the new Nintendo Switch that just came out. Maybe you’re buying each new game for your gaming system. Maybe you have bought into the influencers that are constantly jamming the latest mop and vacuum down your throat. Do you need 4 mops? Do you realize that you probably just need to actually use the one you already have and that this new gadget isn’t a miracle worker?

Everyone has their thing. There’s something that brings you joy and you’re going to be drawn to purchasing new iterations of it. I get that. But have you stopped and really considered the purchase?

This is where I don’t like the “envelope” method. People who use this concept, whether it’s literal envelopes or separate accounts, tend to overspend. They see there’s money left in an envelope and it goes into “extra” immediately in your head. “I saved this month, so I can buy myself something fun!”

This month, I replaced my favorite earrings because the originals were worn out ($12), bought a pair of black shorts because I had none ($14), bought a dress because Mr. ODA needed free shipping 😉 ($20), and two books I really want to read and aren’t available at the library ($20). Before this month’s Amazon order, my previous one was for kids summer pajamas in April. I buy filters for my vacuum instead of replacing it (although I’ll admit that I’ve had my eye on a new vacuum cleaner for about a year, but it’s been sitting at $80 and I know I’ve seen it for less than that). My mom bought me my steam cleaner mop several years ago, and I have a Bona that I bought for myself in 2016. The point here being that I’m stopping and thinking before making decisions, regardless of the amount of money I have available to me.

EDUCATION

It comes down to being an informed consumer. While you can rely on the experts, understand your own goals. When that relationship banker ran our numbers for a house purchase, all he did was ask us our fixed monthly expenses and income (debt to income ratio). Note that our approval was after the changes on how mortgages were approved from the 2008 crisis. It’s a flawed system. But we knew our limits and what our goals were. He didn’t ask us our goals outside of “so you want to buy a house.” At the same time, we were paying towards a wedding. So on top of needing to come to the table with about $80,000, we also needed $12,000 to go towards that wedding. We closed on our house on July 17th and were married on August 4.

We have money in many locations. Currently, in our main checking account, I’m projected to fall below $0 if I don’t have any income before the end of the week. I have a bank account with more than enough money in it, but it just pains me to move money out of that account. I don’t want to set the precedent. I bet if I had kept my business money separate from my personal money, it wouldn’t be as obvious. But we don’t keep things separate because the business income is our family income. So when I had to pay out over $3000 for a repair on a rental house, that ate into my personal checking account balance, so I’ll need to make that transfer.

I listened to the young receptionist at work bark about people spending their money and how someone showed up in a Tesla but can’t pay their $75 office bill. However, I’m observant. I saw that she complained to me that the money in her account showed up on the wrong day so her card was declined at Hobby Lobby. I saw that she regularly came in with a new outfit from TJ Maxx. I’m sure she got a deal, but is a new outfit twice a week a necessity? When she was let go from the job, she turned to “retail therapy.” It’s hard for me to help walk you through the loss of income while you are actively spending.

Personally, I worry, “what if the ability to transfer from our special savings account isn’t there one day?” That’s because I’m looking at the big, big, big picture of our lives, and not what happens today, this week, or this month when it comes to our finances. So that’s why I don’t buy the kids all the cute outfits I see and I don’t buy myself the latest gadget. I’d rather have the ability to go on a trip and do activities with the kids that build memories.

Interest Rates & Value of Money

December 5, 2024November 20, 2024mrsonedollarallowanceLeave a comment

We bought a Tesla. In the process, they’re offering a 0% APR promotion. They let you see how your credit rating affects your monthly payment (through different APRs). The final column in the table below shows the increase each level adds from the previous level.

This is based on a 60 month term. So, ignoring the promotional option available, between the ‘>720’ and ‘680-720’ would cost you $39 per month. That’s a total of $2,340 over the loan term. By using the promotional rate, that’s $88 per month “saved,” which is $5,280. Don’t let it be lost that working on your credit history and credit worthiness is something that pays off into the future.

When we look into a large sum of money leaving our account, we consider the “net present value” of the dollars. The net present value is the difference between the present value of cash inflows and the present value of cash outflows over a period of time. Investopedia uses the following over-simplified example. “An investor could receive $100 today or a year from now. Most investors would not be willing to postpone receiving $100 today. However, what if an investor could choose to receive $100 today or $105 in one year? The 5% rate of return might be worthwhile if comparable investments of equal risk offered less over the same period.”

The 0% interest loan through Tesla is for about $40,000. Mr. ODA calculated that our net present value of money, based on our approximately 4% savings interest rate, is $36,017. Taking nearly $40k out of our savings account wouldn’t be a financial problem, but it’s not the smartest financial move in our portfolio. Instead, we’re going to pay about $580 per month, while the “balance” of that $40k earns interest. At 4% interest, the balance of $40k earns nearly $1,000 in a year. That balance will continue to dwindle, therefore lowering the interest earned each year, but it’s still a significant sum of money. In the first few years, the interest earned is essentially paying a couple of months worth of the car payment.

By being conscious of our financial standing in the world, we’ve set ourselves up for earning these promotions. Had our credit worthiness been below a score of 720, it would have cost us over $5k more over those 5 years of the loan. While I understand that purchasing a Tesla may be considered a luxury, this concept and awareness can be applied across all financial decisions, which is why I wanted to highlight it here.

New Credit Card

November 7, 2024mrsonedollarallowanceLeave a comment

Over a year ago, we opened a new credit card because we replaced the carpet in our house. This year, we finally were able to make a purchase we’ve been waiting for: a hot tub.

Mr. ODA has wanted a hot tub for a while. We did some exploratory searching in May, thinking our deck project was nearly over. Then the waterproofing was never waterproofed. The contractor ghosted us on it. Mr. ODA bought his own supplies, but it was never enticing to tear up our brand new deck boards in 95 degrees to diagnose and fix the problem. We finally got around to that project in August. Once that was done and life calmed down a little bit, we decided to put more effort into the search. We went to 3 different places one day to get information. Then we sat on that for a week and decided on which one we liked the best and ordered. They told us 3 weeks, and it’s expected to be delivered and installed this coming Tuesday, which is over 5 weeks from our down payment, but such is life.

WHAT WAS THE BACKGROUND?

When we were in the process of IVF to have our first child, Mr. ODA was discouraged by the lack of financing availability. We could either take out an outrageous personal loan, or we could pay it in cash. Their “guarantee” program was $22,000. Up front. That didn’t include the medications that were bought separately.

We never like the idea of paying large sums of money out at once if we can help it. We make our money work for us.. meaning money is constantly moving and being invested in short term securities for us to earn interest on it. Mr. ODA had the idea to open a 0% interest credit card for the IVF payment, and this idea has carried us through several large purchases now.

WHY A CREDIT CARD?

By opening a new credit card, which we strategically pick, we give ourselves a personal loan for 0% interest.

A personal loan averages 12% at the moment. Since we have the cash available to pay for a hot tub outright, paying any percentage of interest to a bank is not something we’re interested in. We could just pull about $10k out of our savings account, our short term securities, or cash out a taxable investment. However, that costs us interest that we’d be paying ourselves. In our savings account, our current balance yields us about $120/month in interest earned. If we reduce that by about $10k, we’d lose about $30/month in interest payments. Instead, a new credit card is opened. It gives us the ability to pay the minimum balance (or more if we want) each month, leaving that cash in our account to earn interest or be invested.

WHICH CREDIT CARD?

When we search for a new credit card, not only are we looking for 0% interest rate for an introductory period of at least 12 months, but we’re looking for another incentive. Many people were talking about “credit card hacking” a few years back, where they’d open a new credit card to get the bonuses and then render that card obsolete (not close it). There are negatives to opening too many credit cards that I’ll get into later.

Not only are we looking for 0% interest, we also would prefer to receive another incentive for the credit hit. This new card gives us $200 cash back for spending $500 in purchases in the first 3 months, which we’ve done without any problem. This particular company has other options on the market. One card gives you 4% back on certain purchases, but there was no introductory rate on purchases. Other cards have an annual fee, which we try to avoid unless it’s glaringly obvious that you’re going to make that fee back in rewards you can’t get elsewhere (e.g., I’m not going to pay a $99 fee to get 2% cash back when I have a credit card that gives me 2% cash back without a fee).

Typically, these credit cards don’t offer us a better incentive than other cards already in our portfolio. However, this new card actually gives us 2% cash back, which is the same as the Citi Double Cash card. This will change our equation of managing the balance a little. Historically, I’ve had a balance on the new credit card, paid $500 per month towards it, and then paid it off before our introductory interest rate period expired. The balance almost always was decreasing, so I knew what I was working with. This card is being used more often, with 4 transactions in the last 3 weeks already on it. I’ll be interested to see if that changes how I manage the balance.

WHAT ARE THE CAUTIONS TO CONSIDER?

First of all, the most important thing to consider is where this purchase is something that you can and want to afford. When your money goes towards one thing, you’re taking it from something else. Weigh whether that’s worth it. In the case of IVF, having a child was more important than any other place those dollars could have gone. In the case of the new carpet, all of the carpet in the house was old and, frankly, disgustingly stained; I wanted the carpet replaced as soon as possible so that I could enjoy what I was living in. And now, the hot tub. This is one of the few splurge purchases we’ve made. We have gotten to a point on making decisions that bring us joy. We were also gifted money over the last year or so that was earmarked for this.

When putting a large sum of money on a credit card, you can’t forget about it. You still have to make the monthly minimum payments. If you don’t, you could have to pay back all the free interest you’ve received thus far and/or start paying interest (to the tune of 22%…so that’s $2,200 in interest on a $10k balance) on the balance immediately. You also need to be able to pay the entire sum by the end of the introductory interest period (or, again, you’ll be paying interest on the balance).

For the credit card that we used to pay for new carpet and new windows on a rental, we put nearly $12,000 on the card in October to December of 2023. We also used it to make 2-3 more relatively smaller purchases. I paid $500 every month towards it. The minimum payment was typically around $100, but I wanted to see the balance dwindle a bit faster than just the minimum. My current balance is $6,500. I’ve been been monitoring our money movement for a month or so, preparing to pay off this balance no later than December 13th (I appreciate this company explicitly listing the date of the introductory rate expiration because they don’t always do that). A balance of $6,500 is obviously less than needing to outlay the full $10k-12k last Fall, but it’s still not a small chunk of change that needs to be fit into our cash flow right now.

Opening a credit card will affect your credit score and history. This may not matter to you if you don’t have any large purchases (e.g., buying a home) on the horizon where you’ll want the highest credit score you can get yourself. However, if you believe there will be large loan-seeking opportunities in the next 1-2 years, opening a new credit card should be carefully considered.
– It’ll count as a hard pull on your credit, which degrades your credit score for one-two years. Credit Karma says the “ding” on your credit lasts only about 3 months, but too many at one time could cause a bigger drop in your score.
– Opening a new card lowers your average credit history. This is why people say not to close any accounts. If you close an older account, it brings your average down. My average is currently 6.5 years, and it’s listed as “fair.” If you have old cards that you’ve kept open, you may need to use it for a transaction to keep it active and open.
– If you’re adding a large sum on the credit card, your credit utilization could be higher than preferred for your credit score calculation. According to Credit Karma, you should be below 30% credit utilization, and being below 10% is even better.

SUMMARY

If you’re about to make a large purchase that you’ve considered carefully and have decided is worth the cost, then opening a new credit card with a 0% interest for an introductory period could be a beneficial option. It’s a way to give yourself a personal loan for no interest. Be sure that you have projected the cost over the course of the introductory interest period so that you know you’ll be able to pay off the balance in time, and that you make all minimum payments on time.

Risk Taking

June 29, 2024mrsonedollarallowanceLeave a comment

We’ve hit some pretty big milestones financially. Mr. ODA casually mentioned a certain number by a certain age, but our goals were more associated with quitting our full time jobs. I quit my job in May 2019. We’re in a situation for a couple of years where we’ve been ready for Mr. ODA to quit, but we keep pushing the date back because his job isn’t preventing us from doing the things we want to do.

How did we get to the point where we replaced my income and I could quit working without scaling back anything financially? We took risks. Some of them were big ones. Some of them weren’t so big, but they felt big at the time. Most risks worked in our favor, but some did not.

RETIREMENT ACCOUNT LOAN

Mr. ODA and I both worked for the Federal government. Their version of a ‘401k’ is the Thrift Savings Plan (TSP). There were two loan options that were available: a primary residence loan or a general purpose loan. You then repay the loan back to your account with interest (the interest is paid into your account as well). When we took our loans, the rate was just over 2%. According to tsp.gov, the rate is currently 4.75%. There’s a fee of $50 to take a primary residence loan and a fee of $100 to take a general purpose loan.

While you’re missing out on the compound interest of your account when you take the loan, the ability to buy our own house, create that equity, and be at the beginning of our careers made the decision easy for us. We made extra payments during the repayment period, and we were able to adjust the regular payments up and down based on our financial needs each month. We have no regrets in our decision.

ADJUSTABLE RATE MORTGAGE

An adjustable rate mortgage (ARM) sounds scary. A variable rate. Most people are used to locking in a 30-year mortgage. I’d venture to say that most people also think they know what an ARM entails, so they don’t even consider it. We considered it. We looked into it in great detail. We couldn’t see why more people didn’t use it. We actually were very hesitant over this decision the first time because an ARM’s reputation is very negative. However, we took our time to lay out the numbers and see what would work best for us.

The first time we used an ARM, we knew we had no intention of being in the DC area for more than 5 years. By using an ARM, we saved thousands worth of interest in our mortgage payments over the three years we owned it.

There are several “fail safe” parameters in an ARM. For one, you do lock in a rate for some period of time. We considered 5 year, 7 year, and 15 year options. Then after that period of time, your rate can only adjust within the contractual terms. For example, we have one rate that can adjust 2% in either direction at the 5 year mark, and then 1% for each of the following 4 years after that, with a cap of paying a maximum interest rate of 7% (this is an old loan, clearly). The rate adjustments aren’t a given, and they’re adjusted based on the prime rate at that time, not based on the whim of the bank or the maximum it could increase.

We also ran the numbers based on the interest rates. An ARM’s incentive was that the interest rate is lower than the 30-year conventional loan rate. I don’t have the details since this post is more of an overview, but the ARM saved us money we paid towards interest. Interest is a higher percentage of those earlier payments in an amortization schedule. We either sold the house or paid the loan off early, so the ARM adjustment never came into play, and we saved all that interest cost.

BUSINESS/COMMERCIAL LOAN

A series of events had us asking a local credit union about loan options. They offered us a commercial loan. This one has a big catch though: there’s a balloon payment. Our loan is amortized over 30 years, which is how our payments are calculated. However, the balance of the loan is due at the 5 year mark. That balance is going to be about $175k. We have no plans to pay that off by that time (we aren’t even making extra payments towards it). We will refinance it. The pro here was that our interest rate for a loan closed on in 2022 was 3.625% (when mortgage rates were in the 5% range). Hopefully by 2027, interest rates are lower than they are today; this is a gamble at the moment.

PARTNER

There’s a cap in the “Fannie/Freddie” world of the number of mortgages a person can hold. That cap is 10. There was a point where we had completely leveraged ourselves and ran out of room. We had a Realtor friend interested in more rental properties, and he agreed to front our down payments, which we’d pay back with interest, and have a 50% share in the houses.

We signed an agreement with him that outlined our payments to him for the down payment he covered (which we paid off in about 3 months), and it established our 50% shares in the two houses purchased via this method. We purchased the houses in April 2018 and February 2019, and put them in a limited liability corporation (LLC). Each month, I collect rent from the houses and pay out our partner’s share. These houses don’t ask for much (one has been rented since before we owned the house and one has a tenant that has been there a few years), but if they need something, I handle coordinating the maintenance request. We should have set up a schedule where I’m paid for my time since Mr. ODA and our partner really don’t do anything for these houses, but luckily the requests are few and far between. We split all costs 50/50.

RENTERS WITH COMPENSATING FACTORS

I have several examples of entering into lease agreements with tenants that don’t have a perfect record. In these instances, we typically request some sort of compensating factor (e.g., a cosigner, an additional security deposit). We give everyone the chance to tell us about their financial and rental history before we run a background check on them (telling us doesn’t cost anything, but a background check does).

We had a prospective tenant not disclose a bankruptcy on her record. I could have immediately disqualified her and her husband, but I gave them a chance. They lived in that house for a year. They only moved because his job after grad school took them out of the area, but they set us up with a new tenant at their departure, and she stayed there for several years. Then they moved back to the area, and they requested a house of ours. We had one available, so we happily had them move into it. There’s one success story from giving someone a second chance.

I also have a couple that doesn’t have a happy ending. We had purchased a house without vetting the area. I had fully vetted a house two blocks away, but I learned my lesson that the crime of an area doesn’t need more than one block to change its ways. This house was in a bad area. The house itself was adorable. It attracted wonderful people to come see it, but they’d check the crime history of the area and decline applying (understandably). Someone came forward with a 448 credit score. That’s pretty bad. She wrote a really nice letter though. She disclosed everything up front and said she just wanted a roof over her and her son’s heads. I believed it. We then spent months and months struggling to get her to pay her rent, even offering her a payment plan several times and changing her lease structure to allow her to pay twice per month (hopefully eliminating the constant late fees she was accruing). We eventually gave her 30 days notice to vacate the premises due to lack of payment. She didn’t even make it a year. Instead of listing the property for rent, we ended up selling it. That was a whole other debacle where we entered into a contract to close by September of that year, but we didn’t close until the following January due to the lack of financial qualifications on the buyer’s end.

PAID OFF LOANS/MORTGAGES

This doesn’t appear to be a big risk. What could go wrong with paying off your mortgages? Well, if we didn’t have a cash reserve, and there was an emergency, then we paid off these loans with the cash on hand, leaving nothing to cover that emergency. However, those dooms-day concerns rarely come to life, and we had continued cash flow that replenished our accounts.

The positive here is that we freed up cash flow. Instead of having mortgage payments to make every month, we now have the cash to go into savings or towards any higher-than-expected bills. Besides the house we sold, we’ve also paid off 6 mortgages. That means that we’ve paid less interest to the banks, and that’s more money in our pockets.

We haven’t paid off any other loans because they’re all below 5% interest (they’re actually all below 4% except for 1 with our partner, and we would need his buy in the pay that off, which he hasn’t wanted to do). After payments to mortgages, our property manager, our partner, and utility payments, we have over $8,000 in cash flow per month. I will note that this doesn’t include things that I need to save up for each year to be able to afford (e.g., taxes and insurance), and it doesn’t include maintenance needs that crop up. Cash flow is important for us because if Mr. ODA quits his job, that’s less income to offset our regular personal expenses.

FINANCIAL AWARENESS

On any given day, we’re weighing several financial decisions fluidly. There are the givens that we have to pay the bills that are out there. I have to pay all the mortgages and utility bills. I weigh the best time of the month to pay each bill, which means that I may not pay them as soon as the statement arrives, but may wait until closer to the statement due date (but never carrying a balance unless it’s 0% interest). Then there are the options such as paying additional payments towards a credit card with a 0% interest rate, additional principal payments to a mortgage, or additional investment plans. We’re not looking to apply for any loans, so the $9k balance on a 0% interest credit card doesn’t have any attention of mine except the $500 I pay each month. I have it marked on my calendar when that 0% introductory rate expires, and I’ll have to pay the balance in full.

Our money is handled by a full, big picture, approach. Each day, there’s a chance that we come to a fork in the road and make a different decision because the variables changed slightly. We don’t put our money into “buckets” or “envelopes.” In my experience, people who handle their money like this end up overspending.

We hit our goal to replace my income well before our son was born, but then I kept working until he was 9 months old. While I was still working, we could have easily said, “we hit our goal, but since you’re still working, let’s put all that money into a slush fund of some kind.” When people see any “extra” money, they then look for their next splurge. They feel they deserve something for saving money instead of putting that extra money to work for you and your future.

There are those “autopilot” moments in our finances, but when it comes to making a big change, we put pen to paper and check the details. We aren’t going to take $100,000 out of our investment accounts to pay off a 2.5% mortgage. But one day, we will have to consider what to do with our loan that has a balloon payment, which shows it’s not a hard and fast rule that we won’t pay off anymore loans early (because if interest rates are still at 7.5% in 2027, it may not be worth refinancing that balance).

LIVE SMART WITH INFORMED DECISIONS

Take the time to make informed decisions and research the data for yourself. Run models with the projection of money to see for yourself if it works in your situation. Don’t spend your days listening to other people’s opinions on actions. If we had listened to opinions, we wouldn’t have taken a TSP loan or taken out ARMs.

We’re at over $4 million net worth, have a solid cash flow (which is important because if our net worth of $4 million was tied up in a retirement account, that wouldn’t give us the ability to live comfortably now), and have plenty of money going into accounts for the future (for both us and the kids). Our spending is managed regularly with an ingrained thought process. Take the small, first step for yourself without other people’s opinions weighing you down.

If you want to live differently from everyone else, you have to take action and think for yourself.