March Financial Update

Well, my desire to post every Thursday fell off there. I started a new job, Mr. ODA’s Federal job has been in limbo, and just general life things have been going on and keeping us busy. The kids started t-ball in the past few weeks, our youngest was waitlisted at both of the preschools we tried for, and the rentals have needed more attention than average. Let’s dive in.

NEW JOB

I was approached by someone I serve with on our HOA board. They were looking for a new person who has a financial background, was really organized, and could handle talking to people regularly. It appears that I made such an impression on him and his wife. I wasn’t ready to get back into the workforce. While I have enjoyed my temporary jobs I’ve done since I quit my career in May 2019, I always had a ‘sunset date’ on those activities. I knew that each job was only for a short period of time, and I’d get back to freedom/flexibility. This was a new territory they were asking of me – be on a set schedule and away from my kids.

I expressed that my need for entering back into the workforce was that I wanted to be part of my kid’s activities and I needed to work between school hours for the most part. They expressed a desire for me to work 30 hours, and that just wasn’t feasible. Based on what they told me about the tasks required of the job, I was able to come up with about 18 hours of work, knowing it would likely become 20 hours. So far, I’ve worked more than 20 hours each week as I’m learning, and things are not moving as quickly as I expected them to. I’m 2.5 weeks in, and at this point I can do all the main tasks. Where I’m struggling is the knowledge of all the “one off” transactions and how some people are treated a little differently than the standard.

Overall, I’ve been super grateful that Mr. ODA has given me the space I needed to get my feet under me these past couple of weeks, and I’m really enjoying learning these new tasks and being involved in this sector.

FEDERAL WORKERS

It’s been rough around here for almost two months now. While Mr. ODA is still employed, there is a daily concern that the news will come in. There’s no security like there used to be expected for a government position. The blows have become a bit more scattered than it being such a daily barrage, but there’s still uncertainty and daily updates and waiting for more information that’s occurring.

PRESCHOOL

Both old kids will be in regular school next year. Our youngest has a late-in-the-year birthday, so he wasn’t eligible for preschool until this coming school year even though he’s already 2. The preschool where both of the other two went to shut down. My middle is finishing out the year there, but next year, they sold the preschool concept off to a third party. The company that took over has terrible reviews, and everything about them screams ‘daycare.’ While people need daycares, and that’s fine, we don’t need that. I wanted a space that had a curriculum.

The school previously had a daily agenda and an expectation that the kids were there from 9 to 12. This new school has a come and go as you please set up, and they couldn’t provide me a break down of their daily schedule. The admissions person was actually quite rude and condescending to me, after taking 4 days to return my phone call. I’m not in a desperate need for our youngest to go anywhere, so I won’t be trying to enroll him there.

We had hoped to get into another preschool by our house, but the closure of our old school sent a mass exodus to the nearby preschools. I told Mr. ODA that I wanted to join their church so I could get 3 weeks ahead on signing up, but he said that wasn’t ethical and was more than just saying “I want to join your church.” So I didn’t. But several other families did. And they got in. And I’m still really sad about that. He’s waitlisted there, and there’s been no indication of hope that he’ll get off the waitlist.

I tried for a “moms day out” program, which would cover one or two days per week (I was looking for 2 days previously). He’s waitlisted there, but she gave me a glimmer of hope that even though they don’t have a lot of turnover, there is a chance a space opens up either right at the end of this school year or at the beginning of next school year.

I had originally ‘mourned’ the loss of my freedom with the preschool closing down. I have been at my kids’ beck and call for 7 years by the time our youngest would go to school. Even though it was only going to be 6 hours per week, I was excited to get things done that have been on my to do list for years and just run errands unencumbered. I’ve lessened my extreme feeling on that over time, but it still would be nice to have a few hours dedicated to me and my schedule at some point.

RENTALS: RENT RATE

I evaluated our current tenants and their rent rate back in December. I should have just written the letters at that point and been prepared for the deadlines, but I didn’t. So this week, I got those rent change letters prepared, printed, and mailed. We typically change the rent by $50 every two years for our long term tenants. That’s the approach we took here except for a couple that needed more catch up. One tenant has already responded and executed a change to increase their rent. I have 4 more out there waiting for the tenant to tell me they accept the adjustment or will be leaving at the end of their lease. I also have another tenant who will be staying another year, but I didn’t change their rate since I had changed it by $25 last year.

RENTALS: TERMITES

We have a house that we purchased with termite issues. We knew it going in. We had it treated, and then we fixed the really bad areas. We then didn’t get notification about an annual warranty payment they would do, so our coverage lapsed for a few years. We saw swarmer termites in one part of the house and called them back. They offered to let us backpay those missed warranty years, saving us about half the cost it would have been for a new treatment. Well, we’re paying for that now. For the last 4 years, they’ve checked the property once per year. They’ve noted termites actively being there with more damage, and they didn’t clearly communicate the concern of the condition until this month. We have major problems in the house. One wall in the laundry room is so bad that the termites ate the backing off the drywall and the drywall is all cracking off the wall because it’s not being held onto anything. It really hasn’t been fun, but I know we will be able to fix it. So far, we’ve had the crawl space cleaned out and relined with a vapor barrier, and some plumbing issues fixed that were creating a perfect moist condition for termites to gravitate to. We still have to rip up the carpet, fix the subfloor, lay LVP, rip out a shower insert, reinstall the insert, and get the shower operational after that. It’s a lot.

PERSONAL FINANCES

Mr. ODA reduced our monthly contributions to our investments. We were putting $3,000 per month in (3 separate $1,000 transactions), and now those have been reduced to $500 three-times per month. The kids still get $100 per month each into their UTMAs.

We’ve been so busy that we have hardly spent any money. Outside of insurance and medical payments, the only extra spending I’ve done is for our daughter’s birthday parties we’re having this month. I’ve bought some clothes since I’ve lost weight on my post-three-kids journey too. Usually, we’ve booked a trip by now, but we haven’t done that either. Overall our spending is lower than it has been.

NET WORTH

The market is well below where it has been, and all our numbers show it. We are over $189k lower than last month. I haven’t updated our property values yet. I’ll probably do that next month as the spring market ramps up.

February Financial Update

PERSONAL

I’ve been busy getting started with a new job that should officially begin in the next couple of weeks. I’ve still subbed at the preschool a few days over the last month. I’ve been working on financial consulting work for a school in Virginia. I’ve also been trying to get our homeowners association documents in order while I execute a transition I initiated for a new management company, as well as getting the budget in order well before it’s presented to homeowners months after the start of our fiscal year. Anyway, laying all that out makes me realize I’ve juggled a bunch and have been pretty happy about all that activity going on.

In addition to what I’ve been juggling, Mr. ODA is a federal employee. So the current climate has been hanging over our heads. The uncertainty of what the future holds is more concerning than it has been in the past. Luckily, we’ve set ourselves up for success, but it still is hard to manage that we may not be in control of that decision.

RENTALS

We had multiple houses pay rent late this month, and I’m still working with another house that has been late for the last 3 months and isn’t fully caught up yet. We had one house break the screen door (claiming the wind grabbed it and slammed it against the railing), so we replaced that for $400 with labor. Another house had a faucet leaking and a door knob that wouldn’t twist. I also have to get out to a house here in KY that had lattice under the deck fall down. It’s supposed to rain all weekend, so I think I’ll head out there tomorrow and handle that before the rain this weekend.

NET WORTH

We recovered from last month’s slump, but we’re still slightly below December’s number. Other than the last two months, we’re still greater than any other net worth calculation we’ve had. Our investment accounts raised slightly, and our debt amounts decreased slightly. Both sections trending in a good direction. There were no major purchases or adjustments to our accounts this past month, and mostly our spending was fairly low.

January Financial Update

We’ve done a good job at enjoying time together this past month. We haven’t had a lot of expenses pop up, which was a nice reprieve. However, the market is much lower at this time this month than it was last month, so our net worth actually decreased. I keep focusing on the long term picture though, and our net worth is much higher than a year ago.

RENTALS

We have 13 rental properties. They were mostly purchased in 2016-2019, with one purchased in 2022. Most of them have sustained very little tenant turnover.

I had 4 houses not pay their full rent on time this month. As of this post, only 1 is still outstanding. They’ve had car troubles and have communicated regularly with me. While I’d prefer to see at least something paid towards rent by now, they’ve been with us for 8 years, and I know they’ll eventually be whole. They never take more than the month to get rent fully paid. Of the other 3 that were late, I only charged one a late fee. The others aren’t usual offenders and communicate up front, but this one has been more difficult to get rent paid from the time we purchased the house.

While looking back at last year’s January post, I must note that this past year has been fairly easy on the rental front. We’ve had a lot of frustrations and things to manage, but it hasn’t been as time consuming in the “people management” side of things. We had a few issues with a tenant that first moved in last winter, but they’ve been quiet since. We had 4 houses turnover tenants in 2024, with fairly little loss of rent.

PERSONAL

We have been battling snow for almost two weeks now, which is very unusual in Central KY. We’ve already taken the kids skiing twice this year. Even the baby got on skis! He’s 2, so I guess he isn’t such a baby anymore, but that’s the earliest we’ve put a kid on skis. He’ll slide down the mountain, but he doesn’t stand on the skis; he’s just squatting the whole way.

NET WORTH

Last year at this time, I was sharing that our goal was to reach $4 million. We were at $3.869 million.

Our net worth is about $66k less than last month. I don’t always update the value of our assets, so that’s a fairly static number. Everyone few months, I’ll check on the ‘zestimates’ though. Typically, we expect to see the total decrease in the winter months because there are less sales and less activity to raise the sale prices like you see in the Spring months. On top of that, all of our investment accounts (except one that increased by $22) decreased a bit.

We have a 0% interest credit card that has a balance over $12k on it. We also added a car payment, which we haven’t had since about 2015. Tesla was offering a 0% interest loan, so that monthly payment isn’t going away for nearly 5 years. Overall, our credit cards balances total more than $3k less than last month’s, which makes me happy to see.

December Financial Update

We bought an electric vehicle. Honestly, I didn’t see this coming. Since our trip in July, Mr. ODA has been reading about them. He decided he wanted a Tesla for numerous reasons. We test drove one in mid-November, and we picked up our new car order by the end of that week. Tesla was offering 0% financing, if we put $3,999 down. The purchasing process was as easy as buying something off Amazon. I’m still in awe over it. We’ve now added a $589 payment into our monthly finances, but it was worth it for the trade off of interest earned by keeping the balance in our savings account. As part of this purchase, we sold Mr. ODA’s vehicle. It was 15 years old and in relatively great condition. We got much more out of that than we expected, and that check helped cover a gap I had in our checking account (yes, I could have transferred from savings).

I’ve continued to monitor the status of our insurance woes. Luckily everything is complete. I was able to get the new policy executed (after about a weeks worth of work) on the house with the roof that was too old, which meant I had to manage the cash flow between us and a partner. I had to answer a couple more questions on executing a new policy, and we received all the reimbursements from the old policy that was cancelled. I’m happy that’s behind us now.

We have a tenant who hasn’t paid anything towards December rent. Honestly, it’s expected each year. But they seem like good people, and they always work really hard to get things situated, so I’m always lenient with them.

NET WORTH

Well, we bought a new car, paid off a credit card with a $6,500 balance since the 0% interest expired, and added a hot tub purchase to a different credit card, so there was some big swings in our net worth this month. With the hot tub added, our credit card balance went up $6k. Our cash only went down about $600, which was interesting to see. Our liabilities increased with the car purchase, but with our investments, our net worth increased by over $30k.

November Financial Update

We bought a hot tub! It’s something that we’ve been talking about for almost a year, went looking at in May, and then finally ordered it last month. It was delivered and set up this week.

RENTALS

We replaced the roof on one of the houses. I go into that a little more in the ‘insurance’ section, but that was a $6,300 payment that was made.

INSURANCE

The fact that I have a separate category to cover my insurance efforts is just frustrating.

Last month, I complained that we were threatened with our liability policy being dropped because we didn’t provide the necessary documentation … that. we. were. never. asked. for. So I dropped everything and got the documentation as fast as I could, while being praised for my organization and response time as usual. Then a few weeks later, I was told that our policy has expired because they couldn’t get to our documentation review fast enough. Awesome. I love the one way street. We were finally informed that everything was reviewed and our policy was reinstated with no lapse in coverage. I paid that policy.

During that process, we were informed that one of our policy providers does not qualify to be covered under our liability policy because their company rating fell below A. Ironically, we had already pulled all but this one policy from this company. We requested a quote from another agent, but she said they couldn’t write a policy on the account at this time. It’s frustrating to me that once you file claims on your insurance (which it’s there for), you’re blacklisted. There were no claims for 8 years of rental properties and 12 years of homeownership, but that doesn’t matter. Since 3/4 of our claims in the last year are all in the same location … all those houses were hit by the same wind storms to cause damage. I certainly didn’t request trees to fall on two houses. Add in that the damage to our house was severe, making our policy pay out high for the last year, so getting new insurance policies where necessary (and on houses with no claims) has been difficult. There’s nothing to say we can’t keep this policy on this house even though the rating declined (which I would have never even known about), so we’re not stressing about it.

One of the wind damaged houses with a claim caused that company to drop us. That’s fine. I have been working on this replacement since September 23rd and finally got everything squared away on October 31st. One of the frustrations on that was that I’d ask multiple questions, and this guy would either not respond to an email or respond to half of it. One of my complaints was that my original request was for $500k of liability coverage (which is higher than offered on most policies I’ve had written, but is the minimum required for our liability policy), but he wrote it at $1 million. I asked for it to be lowered no less than 4 times. He finally responded when I got stern and called out the lack of action; he said that since it’s only about $25-30, they just go ahead and do it. I finally said (again) that I have liability policies that give me extra coverage, so I don’t want my individual ones to give extra coverage “just because,” and that it’s up to me to decide whether that $30 is worth it. He finally reduced it. The new policies are $510 more than the policy we were covered with that got dropped.

Oh – the original policy that we got dropped from included two houses. It wasn’t clear whether the company was dropping both houses, but I went ahead and switched both. I was hoping that the new policies would be written like all my other houses – individually. Unfortunately, it’s under one company and they handle things the same way, so both houses are tied together under one policy number again. I have multiple houses covered by Travelers, and they’re each on their own policy. I don’t understand why these houses get lumped together.

Another house of ours was given “high risk” insurance because of our roof condition. Our partner didn’t tell us about the transfer of insurance or the reason why. I discovered it when I received weird paperwork for our liability policy (which, ironically, now that I think of it, my liability coverage didn’t call out as odd, but they weren’t happy about that company getting downgraded…hmm). I discovered this on September 6th. I started getting quotes for roofers immediately, but that process took forever. I finally got the roof replaced on October 18th, and then I requested her to find us new insurance on October 31st. We have a new policy being issued effective November 15th, which will cancel the higher insurance. The total savings equates to about $450, but it’s still over $300 more expensive than the original one that we walked away from.

TAXES

Central KY taxes were due this past month. I paid 4 houses worth of taxes. 3 were cashed immediately. I pay via online bill pay, where they send the check on my behalf, instead of online because there are fees associated with that. Well, now one of them is floating out there without my knowing what to do next. There’s a 2% discount if you pay before 11/2, and that check didn’t get cashed by that deadline. So now I have to make phone calls to track down why the check I sent via bill pay didn’t arrive, even though another one arrived just fine. I also have a city that I have to pay a small amount of taxes to, and I’m waiting for those two checks to cash as well.

NET WORTH

Our net worth is almost $100k over last month’s. Not reflected in the credit card yet is the payment for the hot tub that just happened this week. By next month’s update, I’ll have to pay off the 0% interest credit card, so the total credit card number probably won’t change drastically.

October Financial Update

I feel like I have a lot of balls in the air right now, but looking at our finances, they don’t say that there have been a lot of charges. However, this post sure says that I’ve been juggling a good amount of things over this last month, and most of the issues are related to insurance in some way (and I despise insurance!).

Last month, I mentioned that we had two large charges hit our credit card. One that I purposely held off until the new credit card cycle (an insurance charge) so that the previous month’s credit card was lower than average (psychological play for myself). Then we had the electrical work completed on our deck rebuild, and that was another significant balance that needed to be paid. After that, we just had a a few medium-sized, if you will, charges that hit. I paid an extra payment to keep the balance closer to the $3000-3500 range. Well, it didn’t work. Another two service calls to rental properties and the dog’s annual vet appointment, and we were back up to $6k. We have the cash to pay it off every month; it’s just not something I want to see!

When we have a large purchase, we open a new credit card. The new credit card gives us some sort of bonus, and we get 0% interest for 12-15 months, typically. Last Fall, we replaced the carpet on the first and second floor of the house for over $10k. I paid $500 per month up until last month’s payment. The balance wasn’t a round number, so I went ahead and paid that little bit while also upping the payment to $1000. That balance is at $7,000 now and will need to be paid by December 13th. The new credit card will be used to purchase a hot tub and pay for the electric work associated with that (as well as an electrical panel upgrade).

INSURANCE CLAIM

Since our deck work is now complete, we submitted a request for additional funds. The concrete replacement was controversial in the claims process. They eventually agreed to pay for it, but they held back a significant amount of depreciation on it. We submitted the final work order showing the concrete costs and that the job was complete, and they sent us a check for about $6,550. Additionally, the electrical work was projected to cost about $1,700, but it actually was about $3,500. Luckily, we submitted the invoice and, with no questions asked, they cut us a check for the difference.

Just for the record, the job was never fully completed. Mr. ODA pulled up deck boards and retrofitted the waterproofing. We never paid out the final payment. The City’s inspector came out and started asking a bunch of questions, and the foreman finally acknowledged that they hadn’t completed the waterproofing. We didn’t tell them we fixed it, but we have no intention of being in touch with them again. Outside of the waterproofing and concrete subcontractor issues, the contractor was great at the work he does – but they should stick to simple deck construction.

PERSONAL CHARGES

We actually had a low number of transactions over this past month. We took a trip, which I covered in my last post. Mr. ODA negotiated a refund of some of the cabin charge since we booked it with a hot tub and discovered at 8 pm that there was no water in the hot tub. They refunded 10%! We had our typical charges that occur monthly, and I paid several health insurance bills for various reasons.

RENTALS

Luckily, everyone has paid their rent this month. We have $750 outstanding, but it’s not technically due until the 19th with how I’ve structured their lease. One person did pay half her rent late (on the 15th), but I didn’t charge a late fee since she actually paid when she said she would this month (always a gamble). We had a few smaller maintenance issues come up in the last month, as well as a range replacement at a property that will be installed this Saturday.

  • INSURANCE

Due to a claim on one of our properties, that insurance found a reason to drop us. They notified us that we have a couple of months to find new insurance. I’ve been working on that for the last 3 weeks. It hasn’t been easy. They want pictures and then want all different angles, as if it’s my home and I can just take these pictures on a whim. Then for some reason, the agent I found through a local real estate group is great about answering questions on one property, but won’t answer questions on the other. It’s pretty frustrating. As of 10 minutes ago, I at least got the policy executed on the one he hadn’t been responding on. I started this process on September 23rd and got this run-of-the-mill policy executed today – ugh. So that’s over $900 going on the credit card today.

We have a roof replacement occurring on a property in VA tomorrow. I found out that our partner switched insurance companies without us knowing. That seems fine, except that I discovered our policy went from $600 to $1400. It turns out, he switched because that original insurance company was requiring a roof replacement. Conceptually, that’s annoying because they find some action for us every year with no warning or previous mention of something being on a watch list. However, it turns out that the roof was bad enough that no one would insure us. Again, I’m finding all this out after the fact. Our agent found someone to cover us for short term, and we’re paying a hefty premium on that. As soon as I found out, I requested quotes from roofers. I signed a contract 3 weeks ago, and that’s finally under way with materials dropped off this morning. As soon as the roof is done, I plan on sending documentation to our agent to get us switched to a “regular” insurance company and hopefully reduce that premium substantially.

We had issues with our Commercial Liability Umbrella Policy issuance this year. It was all due to the company’s poor communication. They asked for a new document to be completed, which I did in less than a day. Then I heard nothing from them until a cancellation notice for not providing supporting documentation. I had to scramble to gather all the documents, only for them to not even review my information timely and cancel the policy. They reissued with no lapse in coverage, but goodness that’s so frustrating that they can do whatever they want with no repercussions. In that process, we learned that one of our houses isn’t included in the CLUP because that insurance company’s rating fell below a reasonable threshold. So now I’m shopping for insurance for that house.

I had to pay one property’s insurance of $270 (it’s a townhouse with HOA insurance also). I also had to contact one of my escrow accounts to find out why they didn’t pay on time, which is so much fun (and I still don’t have that resolved).

  • TAXES

It’s that time of year again where I have to pay out on KY taxes. Relatively, they’re low amounts, but they add up to a decent amount when you have 4 to pay at once. I’ve issued payment on these, but they haven’t cashed the checks yet (it would be nice if businesses would allow electronic payments without exorbitant fees!).

NET WORTH

We’re over $800k over this time last year. It’s crazy to see that number because I don’t feel comfortable with our finances. I can’t put my finger on it, but I just don’t like how often I need to transfer money out of a savings account to cover obligations in the checking account. It’s just a psychological thing for me. I can’t figure out why I can’t get past it, when I know for sure that we have 18 safety nets out there if we were in a bind.

Last year’s update mentioned that our finances took a big hit between September and October, but this year, we’ve recovered a good bit and increased over $115k from last month. It appears last year I paid off a large credit card balance this month, whereas the large credit card balance pay-off will be December this year. I’ll also have additional charges when the hot tub gets delivered in a few weeks, which will increase our debt.

September Financial Update

We have two kids in school now, and my days are chaotic to say the least. I have not figured out my organization of all the “required” activities I have. I’ve written our schedule out several times over the last few weeks. It seems so easy because nothing overlaps, but my days are full of stress. I have 3 little humans’ emotions to manage on top of the organization of activities. Everyone’s tired because this is a change from the summer process. I keep hoping that “next week” will be better, but better isn’t coming. So, I missed last week’s post. I am taking several days to write this post. We’ll see how it goes.

Kid1 went to kindergarten this year, and Kid2 moved up to Pre-K. She went to school two days per week last year, which was $175 per month. Now she goes 5 days per week, which is $375. Since Kid1 is in public school now, I saved $175 per month, right? Mr. ODA is going to hate that line. 🙂

We got hit hard with charges this credit card cycle. I purposely held an insurance payment until our main credit card’s statement started over so that I could feel like it was a less expensive month. I paid that the day $1500+ that the new statement started. Unfortunately, the remaining payment to the electrician also came due on that day, and that was $1,766 hitting the card at the same time. Mr. ODA went on a work trip, which gets reimbursed, but that hotel is still increasing the credit card balance. A gift for the grandparents keeping the kids while we went to NY last month, three invoices for rental work, and our YMCA membership are all on there. Our actual spending on things outside these costs is quite low, but it doesn’t look that way with the credit card balance.

I hit 100% of August rent paid as of August 30th. So I knew that I wasn’t going to be at 100% for September right away. I have one tenant who still owes half her rent, which is hopefully be paid over the next week and a half. They have blue collar jobs and seem to be caught up in layoffs. But they get a ton of credit because they always get right back up. They just ask me for a few weeks during that transition period, and I can’t respect that enough. They’re late a few times each year, but I’ve never charged them a late fee.

NET WORTH

Our net worth is up almost $600k from this time last year. From last month, it has increased by about $50k. Our credit card balance is similar to last month. Our cash has decreased a good amount as we had a roof replacement get paid out, but otherwise most line items moved in the ‘right’ direction.

August Financial Update

Many of our activities over this last month were already paid for or minimal cost. We went to Colorado, and we’ve been doing back to school type activities. Mr. ODA was in Colorado longer than the rest of us (I flew home on my own with 3 kids!), and he went on a work trip for a week, so my goal has been activities outside of the house as much as possible in this final stretch before school starts. We’ve had quite a few activities on rental properties too.

RENTAL PROPERTIES

Historically, if the 1st through 5th of the month falls on a Friday, that’s the day that I receive rent. Meaning, if the 3rd is a Friday, then I get rent that day. This month, the 2nd was on Friday. I received very little rent. Going into the 5th, I was still waiting on 60% of rent payments; I was already told by 3 tenants (making up 23% of that amount I’m waiting on), that rent will be late this month. Luckily, 2 of those 3 tenants had paid partial rent already. That left 4 houses going into the 5th that hadn’t paid and I hadn’t heard from. That’s more than normal and was a bit worrisome. By the time of this post, I’m missing nearly $2,000 worth of rent, which is over 10%.

We’ve had several small actions that needed attention from our handyman, so I paid out on that. We had an AC go out before a hot weekend, so we had our technician go out and fix that (I haven’t seen that bill, but it’s expected to be around $1,000). Mr. ODA went out to a local house to properly fix their kitchen cabinets that were apparently never installed correctly (before we owned the house) to install them into the studs.

I was called for a garbage disposal that wasn’t working, and I attempted the fix on my own. I was nervous going into it, but I successfully fixed it in about two minutes. That felt good. I also went out to check on a roof replacement at a local house, and Mr. ODA replaced their deck. This tenant doesn’t communicate well whatsoever with us. She said “the deck is in bad shape.” That was it. Didn’t send a picture, didn’t give any details. I went out to check on it, and the deck stairs were hardly sturdy and none of the pickets were installed anymore around the decking part (it’s more of a landing than a deck when you think of size). It’s infuriating that people could not communicate such a dire issue. Most of my tenants do a great job, but this is why annual inspections are necessary.

PERSONAL ACTIVITIES

It has been a crazy month! I have thrived with the busy scheduled and a sense of accomplishment.

I was elected to our Homeowner’s Association board of directors this past month. I’ve spent a significant amount of my time going through that information and trying to get things organized and back on a schedule. I had my first meeting on the Landlord/Tenant Advisory Committee. And I joined on with a start-up school to be their financial consultant.

We signed our oldest kid up for Fall Ball and our second for gymnastics. She did acro last year, but I said all year that she would thrive better in actual gymnastics where they do more activities than dance. Our oldest started kindergarten, which is really exciting. That also required a lot of attention between back-to-school activities and paperwork to be filled out. I ran a 5k with zero training (I had run 1.4 miles the week leading up to the race), but my friend and I beat last year’s time by 5 minutes!

We worked on our own deck. A tree fell on it last July. We had to get our insurance company to understand our issue and fully cover the repairs that were necessary (it took them forever to get an engineer involved instead of all different adjusters). We finally got started in March on the replacement. After weeks and weeks and weeks of our contractor working on it, he finally ghosted us because he couldn’t get the waterproofing to be waterproof. So this past weekend, we tore up our deck boards and repairs the waterproofing issue. It’s supposed to rain this weekend, so hopefully we’ll see that our fix worked finally. Once we prove to ourselves that no water is getting down there, we can have the electricity finished. We also built a little wall to hide the storage being kept under the stairs under the deck, which was cool.

NET WORTH

Obviously, our investment accounts diminished slightly since last month, as the stock market has been a constant discussion point recently. Last August, my updated said: Our overall net worth went down slightly from last month because of market fluctuation. So this seems to be a typical cycle! Last year it was offset by a large insurance check we received, while this year our cash balance is much lower from last month to this month.

I have about $9k to still pay out on a roof replacement (insurance is covering most of it), about $1k to pay to a plumber, and a couple of other odd jobs that are waiting on invoicing. Our net worth isn’t 100% accurate this month because I don’t have access to a few accounts (well, I have the log in and password, but it requires either text or email verification to get logged in, and Mr. ODA holds those and isn’t available – annoying!). I also have a $1500+ insurance payment to make, but I’m purposely holding off until this credit card statement cycle ends so that I can feel like one month isn’t a crazy high balance.

To update our net worth, I have spreadsheets set up that I overwrite from last year. Last year’s August update had our net worth at $3.78 million. So even though this month is over $27k less than last month, we’re still up over $500k from a year ago without any drastic changes in investment portfolio.

Expense Analysis

Back when I spent my days working in front of a computer, it was easy for me to analyze our spending. These days, with 3 kids in tow, I’m lucky to record our finances timely. There’s no time for analyzing. But over the past two years, I haven’t been happy with our spending total for the year, so it was time to look into it a bit more. It’s hard to know what has changed since I don’t have month over month, or year over year, trends to compare this data to, but it’s a start.

There are some caveats.

  • I don’t include any spending that isn’t on a credit card here. That means some of our rental property bills aren’t captured (they’re paid via Venmo or check), but I decided that’s ok because I can see that in a different way (a separate spreadsheet). Those expenses are reactive and a necessity to running the business, so it’s not like I can change a spending trend there. I’m more curious about our actual expenses and where our money is going for personal decisions. There will be some rental expenses captured here though.
  • I’m doing this analysis for the first half of the year. If this was for a month at a time (which is a goal), then I’d be able to dive deeper into spending at each place. For instance, at Walmart, those expenses aren’t always ‘grocery.’ However, I don’t have the time to go through all the purchases and siphon out non-food purchases. I did go through most of the Amazon purchases and categorize them.
  • If a purchase was made at Lowe’s or Home Depot, it’s classified as home improvement. It may have been rental property work, but generally it’s related to something we’re doing at our house.
  • If a purchase was made while on vacation (such as amusement park, tolls, hotels, dog sitting) , it’s categorized as ‘vacation.’ If we were on vacation and purchased food, it wasn’t labeled as vacation. All fast food or restaurant purchases for the first half of the year are categorized as ‘restaurant.’
  • If we did an activity from home, it’s labeled as ‘entertainment.’ If we did something related to sports (this includes swim lessons, ticket purchases for performances, etc.), then it’s labeled as ‘sports.’ The entertainment versus sports delineation is because something like a single tournament could be considered entertainment, but I kept all sports items as ‘sports.’
  • None of this includes whether we were reimbursed by someone else for a purchase. For example, we purchased tickets for 15 of us to go to an amusement park on vacation, but we only paid for 4 tickets of that personally. Mr. ODA is a personal shopper for restaurants, so much of our restaurant shopping around town is actually later reimbursed in that process (but not captured here because it’s not a credit card line item).

In the process of going line-by-line on my expenses, I discovered that I never received a refund for something. I placed an order on Etsy for a personalized gift for my niece’s birthday. A few days later, I went to check the status of the order, and I discovered that the shop I ordered from was no longer selling on Etsy. I was frustrated that I received no email that told me my order wouldn’t be fulfilled. I contacted Etsy customer service. At the time, I misunderstood Etsy’s billing process. I assumed it was charged when the item shipped. As I was just going through charges, I realized that the amount was charged on the date of purchase (e.g., not when shipped), and I had never received a response from Etsy. After another frustrating round of attempting to contact customer service this morning, I finally received a resolution. Now my ‘to do list’ has to keep track of this refund appearing. It’s $10.01, so it’s not the end of the world. However, it would be nice if Etsy shuts down a seller (their words), that they manage the outstanding orders without me having to take my time to get it corrected. Plus, if I let every “it’s just $10” go, it could add up quickly.


FIRST HALF OF THE YEAR SPENDING

By far, our largest slice of the pie up there is for rental expenses. Honestly, I’m happy to see that so much of our credit card expenses are taken up by rental expenses we had. I pay our insurance premiums (where they aren’t escrowed) via credit card, and I can pay our county taxes for one house with a credit card, which I do for the cash back rewards. There was flooring replaced at one house, which was a significant amount of that slice.

The ‘home improvement’ category includes new patio furniture we purchased, but were reimbursed by insurance (a tree fell on our deck). It also includes the electrician work and dirt fill purchases that we needed for the deck rebuild. Our house has a few more fairly large projects we want to complete, so I expect that to continue being a larger chunk.

I know that our “grocery” expense isn’t completely groceries. I’d like to focus on this category of spending more in the second half of the year. I want to quantify what’s purchased at Walmart that is actually grocery versus personal shopping type purchases. I think that our grocery purchases are higher than they should be, but I can’t put my finger on exactly why. Historically, I’ve blamed it on ‘bulk’ shopping; Mr. ODA will go to Kroger for the “buy 5” type sales. I’m not sure that’s it though.

We don’t eat at restaurants very often. We usually eat at fast food places while we travel or are away from home at an inopportune time. When we’re at home, we’re usually eating at a “personal shopper” experience where our food cost is mostly reimbursed (although that’s not captured in the chart).

Our health insurance deductible is $3,200 per year, so we expect slightly more than that each year in the medical expense category (and based on how deductibles work, that expense is front loaded in the year). I actually pre-paid a bill at a child’s urgent care visit. I paid them $50, but that visit, along with two more visits since then, came to a total of $12. I’m waiting for their reimbursement of that difference.


PERSONAL SPENDING

I’m going to dig deeper into the ‘personal’ category. I labeled a bunch of things as ‘personal’ as a means of not having too many small slivers of the overall spending pie. This includes all gifts, needs for kids (new shoes), clothing for kids, gym membership, sports, etc. It includes a ‘shopping’ category. I spent some time going through my Amazon orders and categorizing them, but the ‘shopping’ category was too daunting and difficult to parse out further. About a third of the ‘shopping’ category is Amazon orders through Mr. ODA’s account that I didn’t pull up to categorize. The rest is random purchases that were probably related to gifts or kids clothing.

For entertainment, this is small things like going to the movies (which we go for $2 per ticket), bowling, and aquarium. The largest chunk of this pie part here is actually 4 season pass lift tickets for our family’s future winter season. I put the ‘mom’ category to see what I’ve purchased for myself that wasn’t a necessity (e.g., a travel cosmetic bag, baseball shirts to wear to my son’s games), as well as my one hair cut and one pedicure that I’ve gotten this year so far. The ‘other’ category is boring stuff – utilities, car maintenance, professional fees, etc.

Had I gone through my Walmart orders in detail, I would have been able to identify some more purchases that could be removed from ‘shopping’ and put into other categories. For instance, the ‘dog’ category is actually higher because I order his glucosamine and tooth cleaning treats from Walmart most of the time, and that’s a monthly expense. His annual vet appointment is in the Fall, so this will be a larger slice of the pie for the end of the year.


SUMMARY

Our annual credit card payment total for the last three years have been about the same. While it’s a ‘win,’ that it isn’t increasing, it’s still at a number that I don’t like. Mr. ODA has been working towards a ‘retirement’ date. We’ve pushed it back just because his job hasn’t significantly impeded our lifestyle, but the day will eventually come. If it’s next year, I’d feel better if our credit card payments weren’t as high.

I went into this expecting my grocery category to be higher than I’d prefer. I didn’t identify much of what is causing that, so I’ll try to focus heavily on watching that expense each time it hits the credit card, rather than trying to remember what each purchase entailed six months later.

I was surprised to see the gas category such a small sliver of the pie. We’ve done a lot of trips (although, I suppose a majority were in July, which isn’t captured in this data). It appears living in a smaller city and doing things mostly on this side of town means we’re not having to fill up our tanks too often.

Overall, I didn’t notice any egregious spending. We don’t spend for the sake of spending. This year we traveled more than we had the previous two years, but mostly our spending is the same. Now that we’re two years into our house, there are less projects that we’re putting money towards. I’m encouraged that now that I’m looking at this, I’ll be able to identify areas to scale back.

July Financial Update

RENTAL EXPENSES

We took a trip to Richmond, VA to work on rental properties. It was fairly last minute. I had a schedule of work at each house that I planned. However, I didn’t plan on the heat index being 113 and 112 for the two main days we were there. I was able to get everything on my list done except for staining the new deck at one of the houses. I didn’t want to risk it not applying or curing correctly because it was too hot and in direct sun. Plus, the tenant didn’t even clear it off so I could work on it.

I had multiple houses pay rent late this month. I was surprised. One let us know on the 5th that they had an emergency, so they wouldn’t be able to pay until the 17th. I had someone pay half their rent early in June, but then haven’t received an answer as to why the rest of her balance ($345) hasn’t been paid yet. Another tenant misunderstood her maternity leave pay, so she asked for more time to pay rent. She paid $800 on the 7th. I told her not to worry about it, and just pay when she can, without the late fee; she only has $150 remaining.

I’m currently working through two roof replacements. One of them will be covered by insurance, but then I’ll be paying to have vents added, the chimney torn off and capped, and the soffits repaired on top of what insurance can do. Then the other one we’re paying out of pocket for. It’s original to the house, which was built 24 years ago. There has been storm damage to it over the last year, and it’s just generally time to address the age even though it hasn’t caused any problems yet.

PERSONAL EXPENSES

Our medical insurance company had some glitches in their claim processing through the first half of the year. Now they’ve caught up, meaning I’m paying large sums of medical bills. Mr. ODA took on booking lodging for his guys trip later this month, which meant that the second half of AirBnB payments were applied to the credit card.

Mr. ODA increased each kid’s UTMA from $75 to $100 per month. That means we’re investing $3,300 each month into accounts, on top of maxing Mr. ODA’s TSP contributions and both of our Roth IRA contributions for the year.

Our contractor has ghosted us on our own deck build. We bought some new furniture for the main deck area. Once it’s not 100 degrees outside, we’ll work on doing the waterproofing of the deck ourselves so that we can start living on the patio under the deck and get that hot tub ordered this fall.

NET WORTH

I updated the valuation of the houses this month. I typically only do that 3 or 4 times per year. I try to account for the big increases we see at the beginning of the spring, and then adjust slightly around this time of year once the comparable houses have closed and sold. This update added $140k worth of equity into the equation. All of our liabilities decreased since last month, and all our assets increased since last month. That has equated to an increase of over $200k in our net worth.