Here We Go…

My wife and I just welcomed our first son, and while we care for him during his first weeks and months of life, I want to document our path to get here and what the future holds for our little growing family, specifically tied to our finances and investing.

I’m getting my first taste of Financial Independence during my 3 weeks of full time off as paternity leave (no alarm clock!) – although the diaper changes, feedings, and mid-night cry sessions aren’t making this a vacation. 🙂

After the first 3 weeks, I’ll begin working from home part-time and transition back into full-time work in the coming months leading up to the holidays.

My wife and I both work for the federal government. While we are unable to receive dedicated parental leave, we are fortunate enough to accrue enough leave, and roll it over, to take as much time off as needed to care for and bond with our precious new little one. Let’s just say I use my leave and my salary in a similar fashion – save first and spend strategically. After 9 years in the government, I currently have over 800 hours at my disposal.

I hope you tag along for the journey as I detail specific stories the helped transform my philosophies on money, spending, investing, personal finance, and any related topic, and talk about more big picture items that define how my wife and I live our lives.

Health Insurance EOBs

I’m back to discuss this topic. It all comes down to “protect your money.” You need to pay attention to what you’re being billed for before you pay the bill. I’ll just throw out there that I think I had to make a call to correct an Explanation of Benefits (EOB) twice when I had Blue Cross, but it’s nearly every claim with our current insurance.

I had a minor outpatient surgical procedure in March 2025. The pre-op appointments started in January. That’s important because we have a deductible. I don’t trust this company’s calculation of our deductible, so I was paying very close attention to the EOBs for the first few months of the year.

The number of times that I have been sent to collections on a health balance due to their inability to process things correctly is pretty annoying. Every single time, it’s been because of their processes and the lack of insurance communication. Every single time, I’ve been on top of communicating with them to let them know what’s going on with insurance and received assurance that they had everything under control. Then I find out that I’ve been sent to collections.

In this instance, my insurance was really struggling for the first 2-3 months of the year. They had a data breach that screwed up so much of the processing and everything was delayed. I had multiple appointments in January and March (which was also surgery). There were so many insurance delays in processing that the doctors office sent me my statement dated June 16th. In their infinite wisdom, they counted the date of service as the time that I should have paid instead of the time that they received the EOB, and since the date of service was January, I got sent straight to collections. Wonderful.

I can’t stand that they tell me to check their website for help when I’ve already struggled to get their website to do the basic things it should do. But I spent hours calling these people (and the people they tell me to call because they think they can’t help). I finally got through to someone who could help me and understand what my situation was. It turns out I was in “pre-collections,” so not officially reported yet (on my credit; just that they were going to make an attempt to collect, even though I’d love to actually pay them on time). She let me pay the two EOBs worth of a balance and clear the collection record.

There’s no detailed point here. It’s just simply not to trust the doctor/hospital and insurance company to have your best interest in mind. Don’t assume that the paperwork is going to make its way to you. Pay attention to what’s out there and could be pending and a possible bill owed. But even once a bill gets to you, verify that it was paid by insurance correctly and that the amount you owe is accurate. I’ve seen the doctor’s office bill me for the amount unallowable by insurance. I’ve seen a doctor’s office not apply a payment I had made as a “coinsurance” at time of service, even though I had record. I’ve had doctor’s offices require payment up front of $50, but the actual payment owed ended up being $4.

Protect your money. Pay attention.