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April Financial Update

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We started getting emails about end of school year activities, and boy was that a surprise that we’re at that point. The middle one is done mid-May and the big kid is done at the end of May. Less than 2 months until summer break.

Mr. ODA took the second round of the government’s offer for administrative leave, which means he would only have a few weeks left working. I’m still working my part time job, which is taking way more hours than we had planned for. I’m enjoying it, but it’s been a juggling act with the family, which is probably why my son who absolutely loves school begged me to stay home because his belly hurt last week.

Buckle up because apparently I have a lot to share this month.

RENTALS

We received about $600 in tax payment reimbursements from one of our localities, so that was a fun surprise this month. Really helps my psyche that I have a tenant who hasn’t fully paid, didn’t tell us why ahead of time, and hasn’t been up front with when she’s going to actually pay us.

I executed 2 short term leases. Both included a rent increase for their short term period; one house is increased by $75 and the other by $25. Luckily, both are here in the Central KY area, so we can flip it between tenants. One is scheduled to leave June 30th. That house will need new carpet in the bedrooms, and it’ll need probably a whole-house paint job again. They smoked in there, even though we covered the lack of smoking rule multiple times. I’d be more upset about it if the carpet hadn’t reached its useful life years ago. The other house leaves July 31, and I can’t even tell you where we’ll need to begin with that one. She made a wood feature wall without permission. She had a giant fish tank without permission. She spent a lot of time doing things that really weren’t an improvement, so I’m definitely worried about what we’re going to uncover in that house. Mr. ODA and I are talking about fixing it up and selling it. We may look for a short term renter so that we can sell it in the Spring instead of this Fall.

I had 2 other properties accept a rent increase that will go into effect later this year. I require 60 days notice for changes so that starting at the 30 day mark I can begin advertising it if needed. One house goes up by $25 per month as of June 1, and the other goes up by $50 per month as of July 1. I also have another property that has a rent increase of $50 per month going into effect next month.

I have 4 houses that renewed another year, and I didn’t change their monthly rent rate. There are 4 more houses that haven’t been discussed. My intent is to have them renew for a year at their current rate. There are 2 of those 4 that could leave at the end of this term, but time will tell.

We have multiple maintenance issues to address. One house requires a tree trimmed off the roof, the siding cleaned, and the back deck stained/painted. We still have termite damage we’re dealing with at a house in Richmond. I have a leaking toilet that was just addressed, and then they hit me with a faulty HVAC unit during a heat wave. Then we have some houses that really need eyes on them to see what condition they’re in at some point this summer back in Richmond. It’s amazing to me how people just don’t care to tell a landlord that something is broken. I woke up this morning to a text that one of the houses here has a flooded basement due to a water heater failure.

I spent some more time fighting my insurance guy here. It irks me so much when I see him offer up his services on the local facebook group for property owners. He’s quite terrible. I sent him photos of a house that had some issues with a cluttered backyard and had the tenant clean that up. I had to fight him last month on an increase where he changed one house from a crawl space to a basement when I assure you that the vines growing through the windows solidify it should not be deemed a “basement.” When the dust settled from that debacle that he was insanely unresponsive to, I ended up owing $9.68. When I asked why my account wasn’t put back the way it was found before this mess he created, he said he didn’t know but it’s probably from the audit and changing square footage. HIs guessing and not actually answering infuriated me. I gave up and paid it, but then I ran to get quotes from other people. I hadn’t done that before because our 4 claims in a 12 months period are killing us (again, because I really wanted trees to fall on us!). I hate when people make the claim that because it’s not a lot of money, I should just give up and accept it. That’s a ridiculous way to treat people.

PERSONAL

Our electric bill is almost double what it was this time last year thanks to the vehicle charging and hot tub. Our electric bill is relatively low, so that’s not all that surprising. We also have 5 full people in this house now (as much as you can count a 2 year old as a full person… but he knows how to control light switches and eats a ton of food that we need to cook him, so I’m sure he’s a factor there!).

I’ve been working at my new part time job for over a month now. Mr. ODA was making fun of my hourly rate, but I’ll tell ya, it felt good to receive a paycheck that wasn’t $45 like it was for a day of subbing at the preschool.

I took the kids to get haircuts. My middle has had her hair cut once before, but I’ve cut the boys’ hair forever. I had family coming into town and the oldest was looking really shaggy. So I swallowed my pride and threw money at the problem, which is very out of character in this household. I just didn’t have the time to cut their hair, clean them, and clean up the mess. For $66 and 45 minutes from the time I left home until I got back, it was well worth it to me.

I had a medical procedure done this month. We haven’t met our deductible. In February, they said I had to pay my deductible to them. I said that didn’t make sense and refused to have them hold $2800 of my money for 2 months. They gave me an attitude and said I could never ever ever ask for a payment plan in the future, so that I could pay $500 to hold the date. I then showed up for the procedure, knowing I haven’t met my deductible, and they didn’t take any money from me. Another business model that bullies the customer into illogical money decisions. I also had an eye doctor appointment that was frustrating in itself, but I’ll spare you those insurance and communication details.

On top of everything else I’m juggling, Mr. ODA is coaching our kids’ t-ball team. Coaching means that I am team mom. That means that I’m responsible for communicating updates from the league (in the slow and haphazard fashion I receive information), gather value card sales that are required of every team member, organizing a basket for a raffle, and the best one – raising $350 for team sponsorship. What the heck, man?! Where did I say that my signing up of two children to play in the league means I have history or ability to gather money from businesses?? Well, I did it. I raised $350 and another mom raised $200 for the team.

No financial impact, but I’m also juggling our HOA board duties. I released our longstanding property manager and hired a new company, which took effect April 1. That’s taken a lot of time to get them stood up and make sure we stay on track for our annual meeting schedule in June.

NET WORTH

And with all of that said, that doesn’t even address the giant reduction in our investments that continues to happen. To counter some of the loss, I updated our property values for our houses. I don’t do that every month because they don’t move very much, but I can usually count on a few increases as the spring market ramps up. Our net worth did slightly increase (based on yesterday’s market closure, not today’s) from last month, which was a nice surprise.

I wonder why I’m tired and bogged down, but that post outlining what I’ve done recently made me realize all I was able to accomplish even though I felt like I was a jack of all trades and master of none. Hopefully things will settle down in our lives going forward now, even if I know there are definitely two house turnovers in my future.

March Financial Update

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Well, my desire to post every Thursday fell off there. I started a new job, Mr. ODA’s Federal job has been in limbo, and just general life things have been going on and keeping us busy. The kids started t-ball in the past few weeks, our youngest was waitlisted at both of the preschools we tried for, and the rentals have needed more attention than average. Let’s dive in.

NEW JOB

I was approached by someone I serve with on our HOA board. They were looking for a new person who has a financial background, was really organized, and could handle talking to people regularly. It appears that I made such an impression on him and his wife. I wasn’t ready to get back into the workforce. While I have enjoyed my temporary jobs I’ve done since I quit my career in May 2019, I always had a ‘sunset date’ on those activities. I knew that each job was only for a short period of time, and I’d get back to freedom/flexibility. This was a new territory they were asking of me – be on a set schedule and away from my kids.

I expressed that my need for entering back into the workforce was that I wanted to be part of my kid’s activities and I needed to work between school hours for the most part. They expressed a desire for me to work 30 hours, and that just wasn’t feasible. Based on what they told me about the tasks required of the job, I was able to come up with about 18 hours of work, knowing it would likely become 20 hours. So far, I’ve worked more than 20 hours each week as I’m learning, and things are not moving as quickly as I expected them to. I’m 2.5 weeks in, and at this point I can do all the main tasks. Where I’m struggling is the knowledge of all the “one off” transactions and how some people are treated a little differently than the standard.

Overall, I’ve been super grateful that Mr. ODA has given me the space I needed to get my feet under me these past couple of weeks, and I’m really enjoying learning these new tasks and being involved in this sector.

FEDERAL WORKERS

It’s been rough around here for almost two months now. While Mr. ODA is still employed, there is a daily concern that the news will come in. There’s no security like there used to be expected for a government position. The blows have become a bit more scattered than it being such a daily barrage, but there’s still uncertainty and daily updates and waiting for more information that’s occurring.

PRESCHOOL

Both old kids will be in regular school next year. Our youngest has a late-in-the-year birthday, so he wasn’t eligible for preschool until this coming school year even though he’s already 2. The preschool where both of the other two went to shut down. My middle is finishing out the year there, but next year, they sold the preschool concept off to a third party. The company that took over has terrible reviews, and everything about them screams ‘daycare.’ While people need daycares, and that’s fine, we don’t need that. I wanted a space that had a curriculum.

The school previously had a daily agenda and an expectation that the kids were there from 9 to 12. This new school has a come and go as you please set up, and they couldn’t provide me a break down of their daily schedule. The admissions person was actually quite rude and condescending to me, after taking 4 days to return my phone call. I’m not in a desperate need for our youngest to go anywhere, so I won’t be trying to enroll him there.

We had hoped to get into another preschool by our house, but the closure of our old school sent a mass exodus to the nearby preschools. I told Mr. ODA that I wanted to join their church so I could get 3 weeks ahead on signing up, but he said that wasn’t ethical and was more than just saying “I want to join your church.” So I didn’t. But several other families did. And they got in. And I’m still really sad about that. He’s waitlisted there, and there’s been no indication of hope that he’ll get off the waitlist.

I tried for a “moms day out” program, which would cover one or two days per week (I was looking for 2 days previously). He’s waitlisted there, but she gave me a glimmer of hope that even though they don’t have a lot of turnover, there is a chance a space opens up either right at the end of this school year or at the beginning of next school year.

I had originally ‘mourned’ the loss of my freedom with the preschool closing down. I have been at my kids’ beck and call for 7 years by the time our youngest would go to school. Even though it was only going to be 6 hours per week, I was excited to get things done that have been on my to do list for years and just run errands unencumbered. I’ve lessened my extreme feeling on that over time, but it still would be nice to have a few hours dedicated to me and my schedule at some point.

RENTALS: RENT RATE

I evaluated our current tenants and their rent rate back in December. I should have just written the letters at that point and been prepared for the deadlines, but I didn’t. So this week, I got those rent change letters prepared, printed, and mailed. We typically change the rent by $50 every two years for our long term tenants. That’s the approach we took here except for a couple that needed more catch up. One tenant has already responded and executed a change to increase their rent. I have 4 more out there waiting for the tenant to tell me they accept the adjustment or will be leaving at the end of their lease. I also have another tenant who will be staying another year, but I didn’t change their rate since I had changed it by $25 last year.

RENTALS: TERMITES

We have a house that we purchased with termite issues. We knew it going in. We had it treated, and then we fixed the really bad areas. We then didn’t get notification about an annual warranty payment they would do, so our coverage lapsed for a few years. We saw swarmer termites in one part of the house and called them back. They offered to let us backpay those missed warranty years, saving us about half the cost it would have been for a new treatment. Well, we’re paying for that now. For the last 4 years, they’ve checked the property once per year. They’ve noted termites actively being there with more damage, and they didn’t clearly communicate the concern of the condition until this month. We have major problems in the house. One wall in the laundry room is so bad that the termites ate the backing off the drywall and the drywall is all cracking off the wall because it’s not being held onto anything. It really hasn’t been fun, but I know we will be able to fix it. So far, we’ve had the crawl space cleaned out and relined with a vapor barrier, and some plumbing issues fixed that were creating a perfect moist condition for termites to gravitate to. We still have to rip up the carpet, fix the subfloor, lay LVP, rip out a shower insert, reinstall the insert, and get the shower operational after that. It’s a lot.

PERSONAL FINANCES

Mr. ODA reduced our monthly contributions to our investments. We were putting $3,000 per month in (3 separate $1,000 transactions), and now those have been reduced to $500 three-times per month. The kids still get $100 per month each into their UTMAs.

We’ve been so busy that we have hardly spent any money. Outside of insurance and medical payments, the only extra spending I’ve done is for our daughter’s birthday parties we’re having this month. I’ve bought some clothes since I’ve lost weight on my post-three-kids journey too. Usually, we’ve booked a trip by now, but we haven’t done that either. Overall our spending is lower than it has been.

NET WORTH

The market is well below where it has been, and all our numbers show it. We are over $189k lower than last month. I haven’t updated our property values yet. I’ll probably do that next month as the spring market ramps up.

February Financial Update

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PERSONAL

I’ve been busy getting started with a new job that should officially begin in the next couple of weeks. I’ve still subbed at the preschool a few days over the last month. I’ve been working on financial consulting work for a school in Virginia. I’ve also been trying to get our homeowners association documents in order while I execute a transition I initiated for a new management company, as well as getting the budget in order well before it’s presented to homeowners months after the start of our fiscal year. Anyway, laying all that out makes me realize I’ve juggled a bunch and have been pretty happy about all that activity going on.

In addition to what I’ve been juggling, Mr. ODA is a federal employee. So the current climate has been hanging over our heads. The uncertainty of what the future holds is more concerning than it has been in the past. Luckily, we’ve set ourselves up for success, but it still is hard to manage that we may not be in control of that decision.

RENTALS

We had multiple houses pay rent late this month, and I’m still working with another house that has been late for the last 3 months and isn’t fully caught up yet. We had one house break the screen door (claiming the wind grabbed it and slammed it against the railing), so we replaced that for $400 with labor. Another house had a faucet leaking and a door knob that wouldn’t twist. I also have to get out to a house here in KY that had lattice under the deck fall down. It’s supposed to rain all weekend, so I think I’ll head out there tomorrow and handle that before the rain this weekend.

NET WORTH

We recovered from last month’s slump, but we’re still slightly below December’s number. Other than the last two months, we’re still greater than any other net worth calculation we’ve had. Our investment accounts raised slightly, and our debt amounts decreased slightly. Both sections trending in a good direction. There were no major purchases or adjustments to our accounts this past month, and mostly our spending was fairly low.

January Financial Update

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We’ve done a good job at enjoying time together this past month. We haven’t had a lot of expenses pop up, which was a nice reprieve. However, the market is much lower at this time this month than it was last month, so our net worth actually decreased. I keep focusing on the long term picture though, and our net worth is much higher than a year ago.

RENTALS

We have 13 rental properties. They were mostly purchased in 2016-2019, with one purchased in 2022. Most of them have sustained very little tenant turnover.

I had 4 houses not pay their full rent on time this month. As of this post, only 1 is still outstanding. They’ve had car troubles and have communicated regularly with me. While I’d prefer to see at least something paid towards rent by now, they’ve been with us for 8 years, and I know they’ll eventually be whole. They never take more than the month to get rent fully paid. Of the other 3 that were late, I only charged one a late fee. The others aren’t usual offenders and communicate up front, but this one has been more difficult to get rent paid from the time we purchased the house.

While looking back at last year’s January post, I must note that this past year has been fairly easy on the rental front. We’ve had a lot of frustrations and things to manage, but it hasn’t been as time consuming in the “people management” side of things. We had a few issues with a tenant that first moved in last winter, but they’ve been quiet since. We had 4 houses turnover tenants in 2024, with fairly little loss of rent.

PERSONAL

We have been battling snow for almost two weeks now, which is very unusual in Central KY. We’ve already taken the kids skiing twice this year. Even the baby got on skis! He’s 2, so I guess he isn’t such a baby anymore, but that’s the earliest we’ve put a kid on skis. He’ll slide down the mountain, but he doesn’t stand on the skis; he’s just squatting the whole way.

NET WORTH

Last year at this time, I was sharing that our goal was to reach $4 million. We were at $3.869 million.

Our net worth is about $66k less than last month. I don’t always update the value of our assets, so that’s a fairly static number. Everyone few months, I’ll check on the ‘zestimates’ though. Typically, we expect to see the total decrease in the winter months because there are less sales and less activity to raise the sale prices like you see in the Spring months. On top of that, all of our investment accounts (except one that increased by $22) decreased a bit.

We have a 0% interest credit card that has a balance over $12k on it. We also added a car payment, which we haven’t had since about 2015. Tesla was offering a 0% interest loan, so that monthly payment isn’t going away for nearly 5 years. Overall, our credit cards balances total more than $3k less than last month’s, which makes me happy to see.

December Financial Update

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We bought an electric vehicle. Honestly, I didn’t see this coming. Since our trip in July, Mr. ODA has been reading about them. He decided he wanted a Tesla for numerous reasons. We test drove one in mid-November, and we picked up our new car order by the end of that week. Tesla was offering 0% financing, if we put $3,999 down. The purchasing process was as easy as buying something off Amazon. I’m still in awe over it. We’ve now added a $589 payment into our monthly finances, but it was worth it for the trade off of interest earned by keeping the balance in our savings account. As part of this purchase, we sold Mr. ODA’s vehicle. It was 15 years old and in relatively great condition. We got much more out of that than we expected, and that check helped cover a gap I had in our checking account (yes, I could have transferred from savings).

I’ve continued to monitor the status of our insurance woes. Luckily everything is complete. I was able to get the new policy executed (after about a weeks worth of work) on the house with the roof that was too old, which meant I had to manage the cash flow between us and a partner. I had to answer a couple more questions on executing a new policy, and we received all the reimbursements from the old policy that was cancelled. I’m happy that’s behind us now.

We have a tenant who hasn’t paid anything towards December rent. Honestly, it’s expected each year. But they seem like good people, and they always work really hard to get things situated, so I’m always lenient with them.

NET WORTH

Well, we bought a new car, paid off a credit card with a $6,500 balance since the 0% interest expired, and added a hot tub purchase to a different credit card, so there was some big swings in our net worth this month. With the hot tub added, our credit card balance went up $6k. Our cash only went down about $600, which was interesting to see. Our liabilities increased with the car purchase, but with our investments, our net worth increased by over $30k.

School Lunch

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I grew up in a private school setting, and we didn’t have a cafeteria that made us food to purchase. Everyone once in a while, we’d have “pizza day,” where we could bring in a dollar or two and buy pizza that they had delivered from somewhere. My high school had a full cafeteria that prepared breakfast and lunch to purchase. It was a private school, so there weren’t any state subsidies. All that to say, bringing my lunch to school wasn’t even a thought. I packed a lunch and a snack every morning. In 2nd grade, I started doing that for myself and my sisters because my mom was really sick, and it just stuck as a chore I did.

I have a child who just started Kindergarten last month. Since my background was bringing my lunch to school, I expected to pack his lunch too. He’s bought school lunch just once so far, and it was for his birthday. I figure there will be a few days throughout the year that he’ll want to buy lunch, but so far he’s content with my packing it.

Last week, I was volunteering at the school, and another mom said “I don’t bother packing anything. For $2 they get breakfast and $2.75 they get lunch; I can’t make meals for that little.” And so, this post was born. Now, I don’t know the outcome, but my hypothesis is that what I pack for his meal is less than that. So let’s dive in.

BREAKFAST

First, breakfast for my kids nearly every day is cereal. That’s their preference. For all the things we don’t buy name brand, cereal is one we keep name brand. We buy it on sale on Kroger. Mr. ODA likes to stock up, even though he admits that the sales are every other week and we may not need 5 boxes of Honey Nut Cheerios in our pantry at any given time. 🙂

We paid $2 per regular-sized box. The box says a kids serving size will get 12 servings per box. That would come to $0.17 per bowl. Regardless, I do know that $2 per box is less than $2 for one breakfast though.

My kids don’t eat much for breakfast. At home, they have a snack around 10, a hearty lunch, another snack, and then dinner. They’re really good about eating when they’re hungry and not eating when they’re not. Even when my son got free breakfast at the orientation events, he ate a partial bowl of cereal and some fruit. We go through a lot of fruit in this house. But mornings before school don’t have the time to get fruit and cereal into him. I forced it on testing mornings, but he still wanted to eat just the fruit and nothing of more substance, so I had to bribe him.

LUNCH

This is where fruit comes in. We also have fruit as part of the after school snack.

Here are some options that I mix and match throughout the week (though not exhaustive). I’m also taking suggestions!

  • Yogurt Covered Raisins: $2.97/pack, 6 in a pack = $0.50 each.
  • Clementines: $3.50 per bag. I’m estimating there’s about 20 in a 3 lb bag. $0.18 each.
  • Grapes: We purchase these at $0.98-1.98 per pound. At the high end, for what I pack, I’m going to assume $0.20 per serving I give.
  • Oreos: Family size is $5.28 with maybe 48 cookies (that was a quick google). I put two in his lunch box if I put any at all, so that’s $0.22.
  • Fruit snacks: Honestly, we have a gigantic box that was given to us at some event, and that’s lasted us since the end of last year’s school year. But I’ll include this cost anyway because eventually I’ll buy more. $15.99 at Costco for 90 = $0.18.
  • Applesauce pouches: I buy Walmart’s version of this. $5.68 for 12 pouches = $0.47 each.
  • Peanut butter and jelly sandwich: A jar of peanut butter is $1.94, jelly is $2.74, and bread is $1.42 for 20 slices. The bread is $0.14 per sandwich clearly. The other two are harder to quantify, but both are minimally used per sandwich I make, so let’s say $0.15 total for those, bringing a sandwich to $0.19.
  • Chicken nuggets: $5.97 for a 32 ounce bag. I have no idea how many are in there. The package says 4 nuggets are a serving and there are 12 servings in the bag, so let’s say there are 48 nuggets. That seems low though. That means each nugget is $0.12.
  • Pizza: We seem to have pizza once per week, and there always seems to be 1 or 2 slices left over. $4.97 for the pizza, where we get 8 slices, so $0.62.

If I pack a peanut butter and jelly sandwich, grapes, clementine, and oreos, that’s a total of $0.79. Today I put a PBJ, raisins, grapes, and oreos. He actually got 3 oreos because there were only 3 left in the package; that total came to $1.22. Yesterday’s lunch was 7 nuggets, an applesauce pouch, grapes, and a clementine; that came to $1.69 (actually, that doesn’t include the bit of ranch I put in there, so perhaps add a few cents).

The first few weeks of school, I had been putting more food than this in his lunch box. He had told me he was eating everything, but grandparents day had grandma eating with him so she saw he was throwing some things away. I had asked him repeatedly to tell me what he likes or doesn’t, or if there’s not enough or too much food so that we can make adjustments.

There are other things like puffed corn, chips, and cheez-its that I buy for his snack. He eats lunch at 10:30, so they give him a snack in the classroom at 1:30. There’s no option to buy a snack at the school at this time, so everyone needs to pack their own snack.

SUMMARY

By the time my child gets home from school, I’ve spent approximately $1.80 to feed him for breakfast, lunch, and snack. On the high end, it may be about $2.25. This also assumes that the child is happy to eat all the options presented for the meal. When my son bought his lunch, he ate the orange slices, bread, and half the spaghetti. He didn’t touch the broccoli (that I put on his tray for myself), and he didn’t even pick from all the options presented in the cafeteria line. Whereas I know what I’m packing includes things that he eats regularly at home.

While I agree that $2.75 for a meal is cheap relative to buying at a restaurant or fast food, the assumption that it’s cheaper than what you could pack a lunch for doesn’t appear accurate.